Why is it when I see a couple that are obviously pregnant with their first child my first thought is, “Enjoy that while you can.” As much as we’d like to think having a child doesn’t change the relationship or even the places you might go. it does. When we were expecting our first it was all about us, more so myself really. If I was tired I napped if I wanted to go for a walk down to the local cafe and people watch I would. During the weekends we would make a trip to the nearest Babies R Us where we might spend hours trying to decide what car seat stroller combo would be right for our little bean. Afterwards we would discuss our purchases over a long lunch of mexican food followed by heartburn and gas. Ah the good life.   read more »